I've always kinda been one of those people that tries to make the best out of things. That's usually a good thing, I suppose. I learned early on that if I didn't roll with the punches I would never survive....maybe that's why I try to always look at the positive side of things. My dad would tell me "Katerina, challenge brings opportunity..your attitude will determine your success." Thanks dad!
He was a coach and teacher his entire life; even after he left education he coached people in life. He was always looking for the teachable moments in life, and would try to give us (me and my two brothers) challenges to engage us in learning some kind of life lesson. (smile*)
We never actually had a lemonade stand, but I think we tried to sell just about everything else from fresh tomatoes and zucchinis to bicycles and maybe even an old refrigerator in our front yard. I'm sure these ventures taught us responsibility, or good marketing strategy or something. (*wink)
Looking "challenge" dead on in the face is not always pleasant. It can feel very lonely and frustrating. Sometimes there isn't anyone you know that has been through what you're going through. Sometimes it is difficult to get past the "potential" and actually produce a final product worth the effort.....
....But when you do, the end result can be quite refreshing!! (yes, pun intended)
I don't believe myself to be a Pollyanna. I understand the reality of things. I for sure have frustrations and I get upset (often)... I'm probably a little too hard on myself, and maybe don't even see my own potential, but if I stay in that mess of a mindset, I will never reap the opportunity of the challenge.
So when faced with an 18 page paper I make the best of it and create the best possible homework station (see above picture and notice the venti cup of iced coffee)....an extension cord, good coffee, and some sun (actually a little too much sun..I got a little sunburned this day. Boo! Sunscreen...Kat...Sunscreen)
flowers from my kiddos...
and five+ hours of effort and I was done! Worth the effort? Hopefully!!
In the end...whether it be a homework assignment (Ugh!), a race, a new opportunity or a fresh start at life...remember your attitude will determine your success.
~later
